HOW TO HAVE 
GREAT FIGHTS

A mini-course to transform your relationships

"We've been taught to see fights as cracks in our relationships, rather than life pushing towards growth."

Many of us were taught that fighting means something is broken. 

We learned to see conflict and tension as cracks in our relationships, rather than life pushing towards growth.

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But tension is essential to life. Without the proper tension, a balloon deflates, the strings on a guitar lose their tune, and the muscles in your body can’t move.

In the same way, relationships need their own kind of life-giving tension.
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Every time you and your partner express a different need, hold a competing vision, or feel pulled in opposite directions, you're not experiencing the breakdown of your relationship — you're encountering its vitality.
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Fights can be invitations to grow stronger, to see each other clearer, and to connect even deeper.
The question isn’t how to get rid of your fights. It’s how to make them productive rather than destructive.

About The Course

Self-paced Partner Work

“How to Have Great Fights” is a self-paced course that represents the culmination of insights that Tara and Joe wish they had discovered 25 years ago when beginning their own relationship journey.

It is a library you can access whenever challenges arise: 22 powerful exercises for you and your partner (Over 18 hours of content)

The theory is freely available on our YouTube channel, but the transformative practice comes to life with the experiments.
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Who it's for

This mini-course is only available for Connection Course alumni, because the skills you learn are fundamental to this course.

  • This is designed to be done with someone you have fights with (romantic partner, business partner, etc)
  • You can’t take it with someone who you don’t fight with (ie another AOA alumni you know) because it won't be effective.

How to apply

Self-Paced

Questions? Email us:
courses@artofaccomplishment.com

How to Have Great Fights

This is a self-partnered course for Connection Course alumni only.
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It is meant to be done with someone in your life (a partner, cofounder, or close friend) who you have conflict with.
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If your intended partner has not yet completed the Connection Course, they will need to attend a cohort first.

We recommend running it with them; it can be quite powerful (and you get to repeat it at no cost, email us for info).
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After you have both completed it, you may apply for access below.

All Connection Course alumni get complimentary access while the course is in beta

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